That post about physically being able to feel your friends losing interest in you is really relevant because there are days when my friends aren’t at lunch, and I literally speed eat or just skip all together and go to the library only to find out they’re all there laughing and having a great time. Honestly, I don’t know if I’ve done something or what. I really wish they would just confront me if they want to stop hanging out: it would hurt a lot less than just ditching me and making me feel like a pitiful loser.
I’d really prefer it if someone would tell me if I’m doing something they view as weird or awkward. I’m kind of bad at taking social cues, but I’m only going to get better if someone corrects me.